Many people imagine erotic massage as little more than a conventional massage with sexual touch added at the end. My experience has been very different. A well-held erotic massage is not primarily about performance, technique, or even arousal. It is an opportunity to slow down, become present, and experience the body in a way that many men rarely allow themselves to experience. Over the years, I have come to see the male body not simply as a physical structure, but as a livin