Erotic Discernment Coaching

For those learning to trust themselves again in intimacy.

When we enter new forms of connection — whether exploring sexuality later in life, opening to same‑gender intimacy, or seeking healing after disappointment — the landscape can feel confusing. Intensity, attention, or novelty can easily be mistaken for love. These sessions help you discern what’s real, safe, and nourishing.

 

What This Is

Erotic Discernment Coaching is a focused process for building clarity and emotional resilience in relationships. It’s not therapy or advice — it’s a space to slow down, feel, and understand what’s happening underneath attraction, attachment, and projection.

 

You’ll learn to:

Recognize patterns that pull you into confusion or self‑doubt.

Differentiate instinct from fear, excitement from danger.

Bring awareness to projection and reclaim your agency.

Develop language for boundaries, requests, and endings.

Cultivate groundedness before acting on desire.

 

Who It’s For

• People experimenting with new forms of erotic or relational expression.

• Those re‑entering dating after a long relationship or loss.

• Anyone who keeps attracting unavailable, chaotic, or manipulative partners.

• Individuals exploring same‑gender intimacy later in life.

• Clients integrating sacred intimacy work or other transformative experiences.

• People navigating health issues or physical changes that impact their sexual identity or confidence.

 

Session Structure

Duration: 60 or 90 minutes

Format: Phone, Zoom, or in‑person (Barcelona)

Approach: Somatic listening, reflective dialogue, and practical tools for discernment

Rate: €120 (60m) · €165 (90m)

Packages: 3×60m €330 

 

The Work in Practice

Each session begins with grounding and attunement. Together, we map what happened — not to assign blame, but to reveal dynamics. I reflect what I see in real time, helping you notice when judgment, projection, or shame arises and how to meet it with curiosity instead of collapse.

 

You’ll leave with:

Language for self‑advocacy.

A clearer sense of your boundaries.

A felt understanding of what “safe and alive” means in your body.

 

Example Themes

Navigating attraction vs. attachment wounds.

Understanding trauma‑bond dynamics.

Saying no without guilt, yes without anxiety.

Rebuilding trust after betrayal or disillusionment.

Integrating sacred or erotic experiences into daily life.

 

Why This Matters

Discernment is erotic maturity — the ability to sense when something deepens you versus drains you. Many of us were never taught how to listen to the body’s subtle yes and no. These sessions are an apprenticeship in that listening.

At 64 or 24, awakening to new dimensions of desire asks for compassion, patience, and skill. You don’t have to navigate it alone.

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Book a Session

Ready to explore?  Book online or message me directly for available times.  Free 15‑minute fit call available on request.

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Time zone: Europe/Madrid (CET/CEST). Sessions available worldwide.